Day 80: Lugu Lake
Mosuo boys, on the other hand, have to wait until 18 for their freedom, which is marked by a ritual burning of their bed.
She describes the process of courtship.
'When a man come to your house, normally he leave three things, one belt, one knife, one piece of clothing. If the woman doesn't want him back any more she lays them outside the door as a sign.'
'What if she decides she's made a mistake and wants to see him again after all?' I ask.
Here it becomes wonderfully Victorian.
'She will ask her grandmother to go to tea with the boy's grandmother. They will bring like a bamboo box, some chicken meat, some Tibetan momo, some Tibetan wine, and when the lady receive all this she will tell the boy, why don't you go one more night there.'
The freedom of choice offered to the girls did not fool Namu. She recognized that it was another way of keeping her tied down, and all her instincts were to break out of the confines of the village and see the world.
'I want to go to Beijing, wear high-heeled shoes and pink lipstick, you know.'
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- Series: Himalaya
- Chapter: Day 80: Lugu Lake
- Country/sea: China
- Place: Lugu Lake
- Book page no: 186
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